All of life comes down to it.  It being a decision.  What is your decision for today?

As defined bythe Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary:

de·ci·sion
Pronunciation: \di-ˈsi-zhən\
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English decisioun, from Middle French, from Latin decision-, decisio, from decidere to decide
Date: 15th century
1 a : the act or process of deciding b : a determination arrived at after consideration : conclusion <make a decision>
2 : a report of a conclusion <a 5-page decision>
3 : promptness and firmness in deciding : determination <acting with decision>
4 a : win;

Link: decision. (2010). In Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary.
Retrieved July 7, 2010, from http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/decision

This pretty much says it all today.

overwhelm |ˌōvərˈ(h)welm| verb
• bury or drown beneath a huge mass
• defeat completely
• give too much of a thing to (someone); inundate
• have a strong emotional effect on
• be too strong for; overpower : the wine doesn’t overwhelm the flavor of the trout.

I get so many emails, daily blogs, ezines, magazines, newspapers, etc. that I don’t have time to keep up with them.  Recently, however,  I found a new one that I like and that I bother to read as it comes in because it continues to peak my interest. Check it out:  Seth Godin.   Let me know what you are reading.

Epistemology

Noun.  Philosophy.  The theory of knowledge, especially with regard to its methods, validity, and scope.  Epistemology is the investigation of what distinguishes justified belief from opinion.

I guess there could be an epistemology as to the necessity of an episiotomy, but as someone who has experienced one and is studying the other, I’d like to suggest that we just focus on using them correctly in a sentence.

New beginnings and new years can be plagued with resolutions seen through rose-colored glasses. This pretty much sets us all up for disappointment and failure – because rather than experiencing the moment and moving through the process of the journey, we only have the end goal in mind.

I recently read a great article by Martha Randolph Carr, a columnist for Cagle Cartoons. The gist was that resolutions are really just a list of what we don’t like about ourselves and that they ultimately set us up for success or failure, which is a “real downer…and an unproductive waste of time.” Instead, she chooses a word for the year, a theme if you will, and incorporates the idea of it into her life and can assess or review events throughout the year in relation to the word.

Easy to feel successful with no expectations and no end goal constantly haunting you? Sign me up! At dinner with lots of extended family one night I introduced the idea.

“Don’t think too long about it,” I suggested as I saw furrowed brows glancing about. “What is the first word that comes to mind?”

My word is PRESENT. Present in the moment. Releasing the worry and focus from or on the past or the future. Just truly trying to enjoy the moment that I am currently in. Feeling it, leaning into it, experiencing it wholly – body, mind and spirit. PRESENT for me also means gift – finding the gift in a situation, which I can tell you can be a challenge at times, but one that has already paid off six days later.

My son chose FORWARD. “Look at how what you are doing now is going to affect things later on,” he explained. My dad chose OPEN. “Less restricted. Open spaces.”

My mom chose SANE. Keith chose PEACE. “Of mind, heart and financial.”

Ricki chose COMFORT. John chose HEALTHY. Amy chose NOURISH. A few could not make a choice (wordless? Hmmmm). But soon the conversations started.

“So, Big Guy,” Kendall said to my dad, “you would then be OPEN to contributing to a car fund for me?”

“Only if looking FORWARD you see that is not going to happen,” he replied. “But please FORWARD the bacon.”

“I would be OPEN to that,” Kendall retorted.

And on and on it went. And I can honestly say that that morning I was completely PRESENT and felt as though I had been given a PRESENT in being able to be so. And I have enjoyed an impromptu afternoon couch conversation, a lovely evening walk, and even a car ride with the kids so much more, just by seeing how perfect the PRESENT is. And that ultimately, the PRESENT is all we have.

What’s your theme word for 2010?

parenthesis  |pəˈrenθəsis|noun